lessons for women in love

i have nothing new to share... same old me.... maybe u'll find this one a bit interesting...

Life's Relationship Lessons for Women
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and hisbehavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about aman's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you fromheartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationshipthat's not meant to be.
6. Never live your life for a man before you findwhat makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was nottreating you as you deserve then heck no youcan't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat afriend.
8. Have faith in God regarding your relationship,but don't let faith make you stupid. God doesthings decent and in order.
9. Don't settle.
10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better."You'll be mad at yourself a year later for stayingwhen things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in arelationship is you.
12. There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; hedoesn't want you.
13. Always put yourself and your happiness first.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. Ifsomething bothers you, speak up.
15. Like from the show fancyy and the City, if hedoesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
16. Know when to cut the cord, don't be strungalong.
17. Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Removeyourself from the situation to let him figure thingsout (but don't wait for him, move on).
18. If you want to have a clue as to how he willtreat you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in hisfamily (not just mom).
19. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is aman, nothing more nothing less.
20. Actions speak louder than words.
21. Never let a man define who you are.
22. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
23. Just because he says he loves you, doesn'tmean that he won't hurt you and it doesn't meanthat you are meant to be with him.
24. Know that you deserve to be the number oneperson in the life of the #1 person in your life.
25. Love is a verb.
26. Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying tomake someone unavailable-available, someoneungiving-giving, and someone unloving-loving.
27. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOWhim to treat you.
28. If you don't love yourself...you can't loveanyone else.
29. You cannot mend someone else's broken heart
30. You need time to heal betweenrelationships...there is nothing cute aboutbaggage...deal with your issues before pursuing anew relationship.
31. You should never look for someone toCOMPLETE you...a relationship consists of twoWHOLE individuals...look for someonecomplimentary...not supplementary..
32. NEVER give more in a relationship than youare getting out of it.
33. When actions and words conflict, believe theactions. Respond to the actions.
34. Don't fall for the "I'm not the lovingtype"...when a man loves you there is nothing inthis world (within reason) that he wouldn't do foryou.
35. Make him miss you sometimes...when a manalways know where you are, and you're alwaysreadily available to him he takes it for granted..
36. When it's time to let go; let go.
37. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't giveyou everything that you need. Keep him in yourradar but get to know others.
38. Never believe a man that tells u he want to bewith you, while he's with someone else, - if hewanted to be with you, he would make it happenmore sooner than later.
39. Don't be a man's doormat , make him open thedoor for you, because a real man would do this onhis own.
40. There is someone out there worthy to be inyour life, let out the trash so he can come in.Happiness is a verb and not an announcement.

...hope u'll learn something from it !! *wink*
(missing the old me)